Most of the professionals are frustrated with their nature job, they sit down with their friends during the weekends and discuss their plans and goals to pursue in future. For instance, some friends would gather to discuss business plans and end up trashing the idea.
We set mammoth targets, almost unachievable because it boosts our ego and makes us feel special. No one aspire to become a farmer or a clerk, we aspire to become Prime Minister of the country, etc. Comming second is not in our dictionary.
There is nothing wrong with bolting desires, but not every goal can be achieved. Only one will come first rest to follow. The situation is completely beyond your control. Realizing what goal to set is important?
Let’s take another example. Coming first is definitely not in our hands, but achieving excellence in different subjects is surely in hands. This way you will make your goal easier and even come first in the entire school/ college.
So here are few ways to identify the real goal from the scattered illusions with the help of NLP training :-
Identify your hidden desires- Identify your hidden desires, your hobbies and motivational nodes in life. Don’t fall into competition, trying to live other person life. Don’t go by the herd mentality, be unique and explore the best version of you .
Choose an ideal environment- Setting goal is directly interrelated to the environment around. If you are a positive person surrounded by the bunch of negative people, sooner or later your positivity will fly away. Only humans are blessed with mirror neurons observing what is happening near by and act the same way.
Modifying behaviour and habit- The biggest reason behind our success and failure is our behavior and habits. We want to focus and work endlessly, but somehow we lack interest and motivation. Why so? Because laziness and anxiety is a part of our behaviour pattern and habits. NLP training has been instrumental in modifying behaviour pattern and habits replacing with the positive ones.